Author: Lieberman, Matthew D.
Brand: Broadway Books
Color: White
Binding: Paperback
Number Of Pages: 384
Release Date: 07-10-2014
Part Number: Illustrated
Details: We are profoundly social creatures--more than we know.
In Social, renowned psychologist Matthew Lieberman explores groundbreaking research in social neuroscience revealing that our need to connect with other people is even more fundamental, more basic, than our need for food or shelter. Because of this, our brain uses its spare time to learn about the social world--other people and our relation to them. It is believed that we must commit 10,000 hours to master a skill. According to Lieberman, each of us has spent 10,000 hours learning to make sense of people and groups by the time we are ten.
Social argues that our need to reach out to and connect with others is a primary driver behind our behavior. We believe that pain and pleasure alone guide our actions. Yet, new research using fMRI--including a great deal of original research conducted by Lieberman and his UCLA lab--shows that our brains react to social pain and pleasure in much the same way as they do to physical pain and pleasure. Fortunately, the brain has evolved sophisticated mechanisms for securing our place in the social world. We have a unique ability to read other peopleโs minds, to figure out their hopes, fears, and motivations, allowing us to effectively coordinate our lives with one another. And our most private sense of who we are is intimately linked to the important people and groups in our lives. This wiring often leads us to restrain our selfish impulses for the greater good. These mechanisms lead to behavior that might seem irrational, but is really just the result of our deep social wiring and necessary for our success as a species.
Based on the latest cutting edge research, the findings in Social have important real-world implications. Our schools and businesses, for example, attempt to minimalize social distractions. But this is exactly the wrong thing to do to encourage engagement and learning, and literally shuts down the social brain, leaving powerful neuro-cognitive resources untapped. The insights revealed in this pioneering book suggest ways to improve learning in schools, make the workplace more productive, and improve our overall well-being.
EAN: 9780307889102
Package Dimensions: 8.0 x 5.2 x 1.0 inches
Languages: English
7-Day Guilt Reset Workbook
Stop Replaying the Past. Start Moving Forward.
Do you find yourself returning to the same mistake, conversation, or decision again and again?
The 7-Day Guilt Reset Workbook was created to help you understand that cycle and learn practical steps for interrupting it.
Inside the Workbook
Understand the Pattern
Learn what keeps pulling you back.
Responsibility Check
Separate accountability from self-punishment.
Repair What Can Be Repaired
Identify practical next steps.
Understand Self-Forgiveness
Learn what forgiveness actually means.
Rebuild Trust
Develop confidence in yourself again.
Create a Forward Plan
Move beyond guilt with clarity.
Your 7-Day Journey
You May Benefit From This Workbook If...
- You replay the same mistake over and over
- You keep wondering what you should have done differently
- You struggle to move on from a decision you regret
- You feel trapped between responsibility and self-punishment
- You understand what happened but still cannot stop thinking about it
- You feel guilty even after apologizing
Why This Workbook Is Different
Most advice tells you to simply โlet it go.โ But guilt rarely disappears because someone tells you to stop thinking about it.
This workbook helps you understand what happened, what was your responsibility, what can still be repaired, what must be accepted, and how to move forward without denying the past.
What You'll Receive
You Cannot Change The Past.
But you can change your relationship with it. The 7-Day Guilt Reset Workbook provides a practical framework to help you understand guilt and move forward.
